Tuesday, August 18, 2026

More Than Meets the Eye

"Kindly make the payment to confirm the booking," someone from the hotel I was to stay in that week in Delhi pinged me.

Over the week running up to my going to Delhi, I discovered I was talking to a male staff who did night shifts. He was polite and respectful and very helpful as I plied him with questions and requests. 

Sunday, May 17, 2026

Beyond the Surface - Appa

The Emergance
Till I was 13 or 14, my memories of my father are more transactional. I remember I would go to him for illustrations when doing homework because I couldn't draw. He would pick me up from dance class in Karol Bagh sometimes and bring me back home, but the journey would be mostly in silence. At night, before he went to sleep, he would tell me stories and start drifting off half way while I sat next to him and tried to nudge him back on track (yes, it would be bedtime for him and storytime for me). 

Monday, November 24, 2025

Deluded by Its Reflection

At dawn, he was born
Growing as the day progressed
Collecting glittering gems that blinded the eye
Feeling there was none equal to 'I'!

Tuesday, November 18, 2025

Crushed and Buried

 Amrita lay on the bed, her eyes closed wearily. The news coming in was heartbreaking and she felt helpless. At 72, she didn't have the energy to face powerful lobbyists and felt she was letting down the people who had looked up to her all their life. But that was not her area of expertise. She had done what she could and had hoped that the value of the work would speak for itself. Clearly, the land, the lure of the land, would always win over all other considerations.

Monday, August 25, 2025

Rameshwaram - Beneath the Surface

In every village in Tamil Nadu, it is common to find a Shiva temple, a Vishnu temple and the gramadevata temple. There will be many other temples too, of course - dedicated to Ganesha, Muruga, and so on - some with historical significance and some that have just come up as a result of devotees' desire to see one in their neighbourhood. 

So, when visiting a place, it is up to us to choose to go to 1, 2 all 3 main temples based on our family's belief system. For instance, if you go to Kumbakonam, you have the Kumbeshwara temple dedicated to Lord Shiva, and Chakrapani, Sarangapani, and Ramaswamy temples for Vishnu. Uppiliappan is normally our first destination as He is our family deity. In Srirangam, there is the Vishnu temple that cannot be missed and Thiruvanaikkaval Shiva temple nearby is equally famous. 

One may say, how does it matter who the presiding deity is. A temple is a place of worship and our prayers is all that matters. I beg to disagree. There is a subtle difference in the energy one feels in each temple. In Siva temple, there is no form to distract us, only a lingam to represent the infinite. It is more subtle, more meditative, more calm.

In Vishnu temples, the deity is more resplendent, bedecked in jewels, with his consorts by his side and other devatas too surrounding Him, depending on the kshetra. Here, with the sanctified water and sadari, the devotee gets more than mere darshan. The lure is His beauty that captivates and binds us to Him in a different way. 

Saturday, August 23, 2025

A Few Hours of Peace

Trawling up and down
Scouring east and west
Finally I find my moor
To take a well earned rest

Gathering myself to go
Yet one more day
Binding together my experiences
Planning what to say

Tuesday, June 3, 2025

Rising with the Falls


The rocks, silent and stoic 
Not ruffled by water gushing all around
Creating a ruckus, making loud noise 

Water, rushing down joyfully
Falling on stones waiting mournfully
Flowing hurriedly to lands unknown
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